How I Keep My Creative Side, Work a Full-Time Job, Dad Life, and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu

The Roles I Juggle (And Why I Won’t Give Any Up) Being a husband, dad, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu coach, music producer, and full-time worker isn’t exactly a recipe for free time. But I don’t want to give any of it up. Each part feeds me in a different way. Still, juggling this many responsibilities means I have to be extremely intentional with how I use the slivers of time that remain. Prioritising Creative Work and Avoiding Burnout The hardest part is accepting how little time I have left for what fuels me—BJJ, writing music, and working on Bobby Makes Music . These aren’t hobbies. They’re creative outlets that help me process life, emotion, and internal noise. Without them, burnout becomes inevitable. I’ve learned to be ruthless about protecting what little time I do have. Because no creativity = no clarity . Making Time for Creative Projects With a Full-Time Job I work Sunday to Thursday. On early mornings (5am starts at the café), I handle admin before the chaos begins. On ...